Rules of engagement in a workplace renowned for herding cats...Simple rules.
Some simple rules for engagement based on an easy 5 finger mantra:
1. Thumbs up:
Bring your positivity
Engage with shared purpose: we are all in this for a shared reason, improving on what is, or will be otherwise.
And give attribution where it is due >^^<
2. The index, pointing finger, or trigger finger.
Don't point at others.
Dont. Point. Fullstop.
Make "I" statements rather than "you" statements.
Practice assertiveness skills:
The Desc script:
Describe with concrete data not with judgements
Express your concern regarding this
Suggest alternatives, seeking agreement
Convey the consensual consequences of such an approach.
3. The middle finger
Don't be rude.
4. The ring finger
Engagement and commitment
Be on time
Use other's time respectfully
Follow through, accountability and responsibility matters.
Image by luv2laff(2014)
5. Small things matter:
Everyone plays more nicely when fed, watered, and get toilet breaks.
Treat people well, relationships are the only way we have to collectively move forward.
And remember other lives outside of a work-place also matters.